Relationships

How to love when you feel shy

How to love when you feel shy

Mike Emlet, Winston Smith

Am I too affectionate in public?

Am I too affectionate in public?

When people try to be helpful but aren't

When people try to be helpful but aren't

David Powlison, Mike Emlet

What do I do when I constantly feel rejected?

What do I do when I constantly feel rejected?

Alasdair Groves

What does a healthy marriage look like?

What does a healthy marriage look like?

What is the role of self disclosure in dating?

What is the role of self disclosure in dating?

Loving an elderly parent

Loving an elderly parent

Mike Emlet, Tim Lane

Should I have my (manipulative) parent move in with me?

Should I have my (manipulative) parent move in with me?

An Analogy for Making Sense of a Person's History

An Analogy for Making Sense of a Person's History

Forgiving a parent who wronged you

Forgiving a parent who wronged you

Julie Lowe, Mike Emlet

Loving the socially awkward - A Help & Hope podcast

Loving the socially awkward - A Help & Hope podcast

Tim Lane, Todd Stryd

Family relationships are messy

Family relationships are messy

David Powlison, Julie Lowe

How to Love Difficult People: Receiving and Sharing God's Mercy

How to Love Difficult People: Receiving and Sharing God's Mercy

How can I be a good listener?

How can I be a good listener?

David Powlison, Julie Lowe

Should We Get Married? How to Evaluate Your Relationship

Should We Get Married? How to Evaluate Your Relationship

Starting Over: How Not to Screw Up Your Next Relationship

Starting Over: How Not to Screw Up Your Next Relationship

Is Facebook really personal?

Is Facebook really personal?

Ed Welch, Tim Lane

Help for Stepfamilies: Avoiding the Pitfalls and Learning to Love

Help for Stepfamilies: Avoiding the Pitfalls and Learning to Love

How men handle breakups

How men handle breakups

Ed Welch, Tim Lane

How do I listen well as a friend?

How do I listen well as a friend?

How do I cultivate meaningful relationships in my small group?

How do I cultivate meaningful relationships in my small group?

How do I cultivate male friendships?

How do I cultivate male friendships?

Life Beyond Your Parents' Mistakes: The Transforming Power of God's Love

Life Beyond Your Parents' Mistakes: The Transforming Power of God's Love

How can we make our marriage a better friendship?

How can we make our marriage a better friendship?

Single and Lonely: Finding the Intimacy You Desire

Single and Lonely: Finding the Intimacy You Desire

Help for the Caregiver: Facing the Challenges with Understanding and Strength

Help for the Caregiver: Facing the Challenges with Understanding and Strength

Getting Oriented

Getting Oriented

More Than a Proof Text: “Jesus invites you to follow him—how will you respond?” (Luke 5:27)

More Than a Proof Text: “Jesus invites you to follow him—how will you respond?” (Luke 5:27)

Book Review

Book Review

Healing Broken Relationships: What to Do When You've Been Hurt

Healing Broken Relationships: What to Do When You've Been Hurt

Pre-Engagement: Five Questions to Ask Yourselves

Pre-Engagement: Five Questions to Ask Yourselves

David Powlison, John V. Yenchko

Do we need one another in the Christian life?

Do we need one another in the Christian life?

Can I seek community without feeling needy?

Can I seek community without feeling needy?

Relationships: A Mess Worth Making

Relationships: A Mess Worth Making

Paul David Tripp, Tim Lane

Helping “difficult” people in your church

Helping “difficult” people in your church

To Do: Share What Is on My Heart

To Do: Share What Is on My Heart

The problem with advice

The problem with advice

How do you respond to people who feel shame?

How do you respond to people who feel shame?

The World’s Best Epilogue—Ever

The World’s Best Epilogue—Ever

Moving toward People

Moving toward People

“I will never...do (that) again.”

“I will never...do (that) again.”

For men: Urgent – blame-sharing (though women can peek)

For men: Urgent – blame-sharing (though women can peek)

Scripture is true: Proof #1 (...what I learned by driving a school bus)

Scripture is true: Proof #1 (...what I learned by driving a school bus)

What has helped you in your troubles?

What has helped you in your troubles?

Christians and non-Christians, married

Christians and non-Christians, married

Heaping burning coals on your enemy

Heaping burning coals on your enemy

Let's talk about money

Let's talk about money

How a deal with my daughter paid off

How a deal with my daughter paid off

The joy of recognizing God

The joy of recognizing God

Hearing what is important

Hearing what is important

Being a Burden

Being a Burden

Why Is Love So Stupid?

Why Is Love So Stupid?

Power Differences in Counseling

Power Differences in Counseling

Sock puppets and other godly provisions

Sock puppets and other godly provisions

Who cares about motives

Who cares about motives

Hope Needs a Story

Hope Needs a Story

When counselors make house calls

When counselors make house calls

The crisis phone call

The crisis phone call

Hungry for friendship with God? Me too

Hungry for friendship with God? Me too

Alasdair Groves

Marriage counseling (Part 1)

Marriage counseling (Part 1)

On love and spider plants

On love and spider plants

A crowd can make you crazy

A crowd can make you crazy

A Christmas memory

A Christmas memory

Slow-er relationships

Slow-er relationships

Counselor as host

Counselor as host

Alone and “not alone”

Alone and “not alone”

More evidence that scripture is of divine origin

More evidence that scripture is of divine origin

Husbands feeling inadequate in counseling

Husbands feeling inadequate in counseling

The ultimate treasure hunt

The ultimate treasure hunt

Alasdair Groves

Inside Out: Lessons in Sadness, Sonship, and Prodigals

Inside Out: Lessons in Sadness, Sonship, and Prodigals

When we test others

When we test others

Free Side by Side Study and Leader’s Guide

Free Side by Side Study and Leader’s Guide

What Do You Think of Me? Why Do I Care?

What Do You Think of Me? Why Do I Care?

When People Are Big and God Is Small

When People Are Big and God Is Small

Last words

Last words

The desire to be desired

The desire to be desired

Ordinary People Do Heavy Lifting

Ordinary People Do Heavy Lifting

Hospital Visitation: Become a Companion in the Wilderness

December 31, 2015

Hospital Visitation: Become a Companion in the Wilderness

Book Review

December 31, 2015

Book Review

Wesley T. Tubel

Struggling Through Singleness

Struggling Through Singleness

More Than a Proof Text: "Men—Treat Women Like Sisters"

More Than a Proof Text: "Men—Treat Women Like Sisters"

Michael Gembola

Side by Side: Walking with Others in Wisdom and Love

Side by Side: Walking with Others in Wisdom and Love

Something Worth Meeting For - A Biblical Vision for Small Groups

December 31, 2014

Something Worth Meeting For - A Biblical Vision for Small Groups

How to Set Up Church-Based Accountability Groups

December 31, 2014

How to Set Up Church-Based Accountability Groups

Alasdair Groves

Help for Busy Pastors

September 8, 2014

Help for Busy Pastors

Ten Ways Ordinary People Can Help Those with Psychiatric Problems

August 31, 2014

Ten Ways Ordinary People Can Help Those with Psychiatric Problems

Quietness: A Lost Virtue in a Loud World

August 31, 2014

Quietness: A Lost Virtue in a Loud World

Michael Gembola

Redirecting the Church's Drama

August 31, 2014

Redirecting the Church's Drama

William R. Edwards

Conflict in Corinth: A Surprising Way to Build a Community

August 31, 2014

Conflict in Corinth: A Surprising Way to Build a Community

Manipulative Obsession or Love from a Pure Heart?

Manipulative Obsession or Love from a Pure Heart?

A Gallery of Gossips

December 31, 2013

A Gallery of Gossips

Matthew C. Mitchell

The Power of Words

August 31, 2013

The Power of Words

Paul David Tripp

How to Fight Right

August 31, 2013

How to Fight Right

Paul David Tripp

Facing My Contempt

August 31, 2013

Facing My Contempt

A Most Welcome Visitor

A Most Welcome Visitor

Exposing the Lies of Pornography and Counseling the Men Who Believe Them

Exposing the Lies of Pornography and Counseling the Men Who Believe Them

Alasdair Groves

From Your Heart . . . Forgive

December 31, 2012

From Your Heart . . . Forgive

In It for Good

August 31, 2012

In It for Good

Active Love: A New Way of Living

August 31, 2012

Active Love: A New Way of Living

Stomping Among Lilies

Stomping Among Lilies

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