Conflict

How do I help my children who are constantly arguing with each other?

October 27, 2026

How do I help my children who are constantly arguing with each other?

Navigating Conflict: Insights from Biblical Counseling

February 3, 2025

Navigating Conflict: Insights from Biblical Counseling

Alasdair Groves, Darby Strickland, David Gunner Gundersen, Esther Liu

Darcy Is Always First: When Siblings Fight

Darcy Is Always First: When Siblings Fight

My husband and I keep fighting over the same thing. He says he will change, but never does. What should we do?

My husband and I keep fighting over the same thing. He says he will change, but never does. What should we do?

My wife nags me. It seems nothing I do is good enough for her. What do I do?

January 11, 2024

My wife nags me. It seems nothing I do is good enough for her. What do I do?

JBC Must Reads: On Marriage Counseling

September 28, 2022

JBC Must Reads: On Marriage Counseling

Aaron Sironi, Lauren Whitman, Winston Smith

Speaking Truth in Marital Conflict

Speaking Truth in Marital Conflict

God’s Purposes for Relational Distance: A Means to a Good End

God’s Purposes for Relational Distance: A Means to a Good End

Helping Spouses Move Toward Each Other in Conflict

August 31, 2020

Helping Spouses Move Toward Each Other in Conflict

Aaron Sironi, Lauren Whitman

JBC Must Reads: On Conflict

August 27, 2020

JBC Must Reads: On Conflict

Aaron Sironi, Alasdair Groves, Bill Smith, David Powlison, Kristin Silva, Lauren Whitman, Steve Midgley

Digital JBC Must Reads: On Conflict

August 27, 2020

Digital JBC Must Reads: On Conflict

Aaron Sironi, Alasdair Groves, Bill Smith, David Powlison, Kristin Silva, Lauren Whitman, Steve Midgley

How can I handle disagreements with my spouse in a healthy way?

How can I handle disagreements with my spouse in a healthy way?

Marriage Counseling with Only One Spouse

August 31, 2019

Marriage Counseling with Only One Spouse

Aaron Sironi, Lauren Whitman

The Wall of Weariness: Loving the Wayward

August 31, 2019

The Wall of Weariness: Loving the Wayward

Dave Harvey, Paul Gilbert

What can I do when I don't feel emotionally supported in my marriage?

August 28, 2019

What can I do when I don't feel emotionally supported in my marriage?

Disagreeing Well

Disagreeing Well

Helping a Spouse Who Moves Against during Marital Conflict

December 31, 2018

Helping a Spouse Who Moves Against during Marital Conflict

Aaron Sironi, Lauren Whitman

Helping a Spouse Who Withdraws during Conflict

Helping a Spouse Who Withdraws during Conflict

Aaron Sironi, Lauren Whitman

Nine Ways to Confront in Love: A Primer for the Timid

Nine Ways to Confront in Love: A Primer for the Timid

Alasdair Groves

How do you love someone who is quick to speak and slow to listen?

September 22, 2016

How do you love someone who is quick to speak and slow to listen?

Anger within church leadership

August 27, 2016

Anger within church leadership

How do you minister to someone who is completely irrational?

August 25, 2016

How do you minister to someone who is completely irrational?

What do I do when I constantly feel rejected?

What do I do when I constantly feel rejected?

Alasdair Groves

Can I thrive in a marriage that is not thriving?

Can I thrive in a marriage that is not thriving?

Is there ever a time to walk away from a broken friendship?

Is there ever a time to walk away from a broken friendship?

Todd Stryd, Winston Smith

How to encourage an unwilling spouse to start marriage counseling

How to encourage an unwilling spouse to start marriage counseling

Todd Stryd, Winston Smith

Should I have my (manipulative) parent move in with me?

Should I have my (manipulative) parent move in with me?

How to Love Difficult People: Receiving and Sharing God's Mercy

How to Love Difficult People: Receiving and Sharing God's Mercy

Conflict: A Redemptive Opportunity

Conflict: A Redemptive Opportunity

Family Feuds: How to Respond

Family Feuds: How to Respond

Life Beyond Your Parents' Mistakes: The Transforming Power of God's Love

Life Beyond Your Parents' Mistakes: The Transforming Power of God's Love

How can I respond to criticism in marriage?

How can I respond to criticism in marriage?

Healing Broken Relationships: What to Do When You've Been Hurt

Healing Broken Relationships: What to Do When You've Been Hurt

Reflections on a marriage retreat

Reflections on a marriage retreat

Judging others: The danger of playing God (Part 3)

Judging others: The danger of playing God (Part 3)

Judging others: The danger of playing God (Part 1)

Judging others: The danger of playing God (Part 1)

Judging others: The danger of playing God (Part 2)

Judging others: The danger of playing God (Part 2)

Does the Shoe Fit?

Does the Shoe Fit?

Helping “difficult” people in your church

Helping “difficult” people in your church

Heaping burning coals on your enemy

Heaping burning coals on your enemy

Hardship and opportunity

Hardship and opportunity

Who cares about motives

Who cares about motives

Marriage counseling (Part 6)

Marriage counseling (Part 6)

The hopeless marriage

The hopeless marriage

Abusive Marriages: Providing Counseling and Care

October 7, 2015

Abusive Marriages: Providing Counseling and Care

Darby Strickland

Redirecting the Church's Drama

August 31, 2014

Redirecting the Church's Drama

William R. Edwards

Conflict in Corinth: A Surprising Way to Build a Community

August 31, 2014

Conflict in Corinth: A Surprising Way to Build a Community

How to Fight Right

August 31, 2013

How to Fight Right

Paul David Tripp

From Your Heart . . . Forgive

December 31, 2012

From Your Heart . . . Forgive

Stomping Among Lilies

Stomping Among Lilies

Anger in Marriage

September 30, 2006

Anger in Marriage

Order from Chaos: When a Bad Marriage Gets Worse

Order from Chaos: When a Bad Marriage Gets Worse

Paul David Tripp, Tim Lane

A Broken Marriage Restored

January 31, 2006

A Broken Marriage Restored

David Elliott Bottorff, Marjorie Ward Bottorff

God As Father: When Your Own Father Failed

God As Father: When Your Own Father Failed

Marriage and Anger

January 18, 2005

Marriage and Anger

Marriage Counseling for Multiethnic Marriages

Marriage Counseling for Multiethnic Marriages

Taking the High Road during Marital Difficulties

Taking the High Road during Marital Difficulties

The Church’s Role in Preserving and Healing Marriages

The Church’s Role in Preserving and Healing Marriages

Transforming Your Church: Cultivating a Culture of Peace

September 30, 2003

Transforming Your Church: Cultivating a Culture of Peace

"I've Had it with You!" Learning to Be Tender When People are Tough

September 30, 2003

"I've Had it with You!" Learning to Be Tender When People are Tough

Real Counsel for Real People

January 31, 2003

Real Counsel for Real People

Judging Others: The Danger of Playing God

September 30, 2002

Judging Others: The Danger of Playing God

Judging According to the Bible

September 30, 2002

Judging According to the Bible

D. Patrick Ramsey

A Biblical Theology of Relationships

A Biblical Theology of Relationships

Troubling the Waters—And Spreading Oil on the Waves

September 30, 2000

Troubling the Waters—And Spreading Oil on the Waves

Polemic Theology, or How to Deal with Those Who Differ from Us

September 30, 2000

Polemic Theology, or How to Deal with Those Who Differ from Us

Roger R. Nicole

Resolving Conflict Christ’s Way

September 30, 2000

Resolving Conflict Christ’s Way

Robert D. Jones

War of Words

February 1, 2000

War of Words

Paul David Tripp

Book Reviews

September 30, 1999

Book Reviews

David C. Howard, Sharon Covington

The Cross and Criticism

The Cross and Criticism

Alfred J. Poirier

Speaking Redemptively

Speaking Redemptively

Paul David Tripp

Christian Communication

January 31, 1998

Christian Communication

Jeffrey S. Forrey

Marital Expectations

January 31, 1998

Marital Expectations

Getting to the Heart of the Conflict: Anger, Part 3

September 30, 1997

Getting to the Heart of the Conflict: Anger, Part 3

Let Me Draw a Picture: Picturing the Heart of Conflict and The Slippery Slope

September 30, 1997

Let Me Draw a Picture: Picturing the Heart of Conflict and The Slippery Slope

Corlette Sande, David Powlison

Book Reviews

September 30, 1997

Book Reviews

David Powlison, Robert D. Jones, Sharon Covington

Shining Like Stars

January 31, 1996

Shining Like Stars

John V. Yenchko

Getting to the Heart of the Matter in Marriage Counseling

Book Review

September 30, 1992

Book Review

September 30, 1992

Reconciliation Through Confessing Your Sin

A Biblical Alternative to Criticism

A Biblical Alternative to Criticism

Louis P. Priolo

A Reader’s Response

A Reader’s Response

What is She to Do?

What is She to Do?

Handling Open Conflict

December 31, 1987

Handling Open Conflict

Problem Solving Revisited, A Reminder

September 30, 1983

Problem Solving Revisited, A Reminder

G. Richard Fisher

December 31, 1982

The Legal and Biblical Resolution of Conflict

Jerome Strickland

Counsel on Being Reconciled to Our Brother

Counsel on Being Reconciled to Our Brother

What Do You Do When Church Discipline Fails?

What Do You Do When Church Discipline Fails?

G. Richard Fisher

The Key to the Casebook

December 31, 1981

The Key to the Casebook

The Ministry of Rebuking

December 31, 1981

The Ministry of Rebuking

Keith Megilligan

Counseling the Jealous Mate

Counseling the Jealous Mate

The Key to the Casebook

The Key to the Casebook

The Key to the Christian Counselor’s Casebook

December 31, 1980

The Key to the Christian Counselor’s Casebook

The Prevention of Strife

December 31, 1980

The Prevention of Strife

Biblical Help for Solving Interpersonal Conflict

Biblical Help for Solving Interpersonal Conflict