When Will the New Day Dawn? Loving a Spouse Who Was Victimized in the Past

In this audio talk, David Powlison and Julie Lowe address the deep impact of physical, sexual, and verbal abuse, especially within marriage when one spouse has a history of victimization. Through five real-life vignettes—including experiences with controlling parents, sexual abuse, mental illness, and perceived victimization—they explore the emotional toll these histories can take on both partners. Powlison focuses on feelings of confusion and frustration, while Lowe highlights the struggles of withdrawal and isolation. Together, they offer compassionate insight and practical guidance for moving forward, including clearer understanding, intentional living, and the vital support of the body of Christ.