In this audio talk, Winner maintains that the true struggle we face is not sex but how we live faithfully as embodied souls. Part of that existence is sexual, but embodiment involves more than sex. Living faithfully in our embodiment is a crucial part of discipleship that is often overlooked. Winner found that much of the Christian literature on chastity make it sound fun and instantly rewarding; her experience was far different. The primary error we make in the church in how we think, teach, and talk about sex is that we fail to connect sex to the larger theological story of creation, fall, and redemption. Winner concludes by covering three crucial truths about sex and singleness in the church.