Fighting for Your Marriage: Building a Bond Instead of Walls

In this audio talk, Monica Kim helps couples navigate marital conflict by showing how “good conflict” can strengthen a relationship. Drawing on biblical themes, she encourages couples to fight for their marriage, trusting God as the divine warrior King who battles on their behalf. Kim traces the origins of this fight to God’s own war against sin, evil, and Satan—culminating in Christ, whose Spirit now empowers believers to engage in spiritual battles that underlie our earthly struggles. She reminds listeners that our true conflict isn’t with each other, but with spiritual forces, and that God equips us for victory. The talk concludes with practical guidance for applying these truths to everyday marital challenges, revealing how conflict can uncover both sin and opportunities for growth.