This article is presented as an edited interview with David Powlison and an anonymous middle-aged Christian man who was coming out of several decades of sexual fantasy and voyeurism. Though he never acted out in interpersonal immorality, in his private life he was “always on the prowl for images…a sexual predator in search of prey.” The man’s secret life had serious effects on his relationship with his wife, but as he changed he learned to love her. The anonymous man concludes, “once I got honest, I found grace.”