Sometimes Scripture is our fix-me manual rather than God’s revelation of himself as the only true God. We spend more time in spiritual analysis than we do in prayer. We look for that biblical principle to solve our problem and once we settle into a satisfying insight or self-assessment, we consider the job done. Prayer rarely has the last word.
Biblical counseling, including my own counseling, can be guilty of this. My own life can be guilty of this. It can look good on the surface: I really am trying to think biblically about the daily struggles of life. But, in fact, my system is less than biblical; I live as though God’s job is to give me a relevant principle and then off I go to figure things out. I need less analyzing and more praying! Perhaps an app that gives me a mild shock every half hour would useful. It would remind me to talk through my thoughts, fears and questions with the Lord. In other words: it would remind me to pray.
These can be messy prayers. Here is a single woman’s prayer about sexual temptation:
Prayer requires more than that.
Recently, I spoke with a woman who is plagued by hallucinatory voices that egg on sinful thoughts. She relies on food to quiet herself. Many would consider her spiritually weak. In one meeting with her, as I offered a biblical analysis of her issues, she asked, “Could I read you some of my prayers?” A few weeks before I had suggested that she begin to write out her prayers, but in the short time we had I was not planning to follow up on that suggestion. I didn’t even remember that I made the suggestion. Then she started reading her prayers.
Jesus, I had a great conversation with a friend, so I didn’t binge or purge. I am really happy about that. Today I will seek her out again when I am tempted.