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January 01, 2013 - Ed Welch - Blog Post

Men are wretched at dealing with rejection. Women are not good at it either. But at least they are more prone to talking about it, or they are vulnerable enough to be sad. Men tend to go silent or get angry. I want to get to sexual rejection—wives who seem to reject their husband’s sexual advances—but first, a warm-up illustration.

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December 31, 2012 - Ed Welch - Blog Post

Has this happened to you? You read all the signs that were so blatantly from the Lord—“yes, this is the path, go this way, I am with you.” You have been amazed at the way he opened doors—you were scared but you walked through them. The Lord confirmed his will for you through other people too—they were excited that God was doing this. Finally, you were on board. You were excited. You were all in. You had peace about your decision.

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December 31, 2012 - Ed Welch - Blog Post

What was this intelligent woman thinking?! This guy was so wrong for her! Everyone else could see it! Why couldn’t she?   It was the first time I was asked to do premarital counseling.  It was also when I awoke to the stupidity of love.

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December 30, 2012 - Winston Smith - Blog Post

Recently, as I approached the breakfast table I caught the tail end of a conversation my teenagers were having that ended with my son explaining to one of his younger sisters, “I would definitely kill you first if we were selected as tribute.” I was only mildly relieved to find that they were talking about The Hunger Games, the novel by Suzanne Collins and recent blockbuster movie. I’d heard mention of it, but given the way it had ruined my breakfast, I thought I should investigate further.

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December 29, 2012 - Ed Welch - Blog Post

He is forty-two-years-old and his physician suggested that Ritilan or one of its relatives might be helpful. So he tried it, and it was helpful. “There hasn’t been anything magical about it, but I noticed a difference almost right away. My brain just felt clearer and more orderly. My wife has noticed the difference too.” My first response was simple. “That’s great.” My second response was, “please, tell me more.” He is a biblically thoughtful and insightful man, and I was eager to learn from him.

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December 27, 2012 - Ed Welch - Blog Post

Doesn’t it seem good and right to fight against sin in such a way that it physically hurts? To say “no” when everything inside us wants to say “yes”?  And the last time that happened was . . . Sin takes different forms such as pride, unbelief and lust. It is lust in particular— reckless desire, covetousness, I WANT!—that hurts when taken to task.

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December 27, 2012 - Ed Welch - Blog Post

Here is one reason you must be called to pastoral ministry: the people you love will not love you back—at least some of them will not love you back. They will say utterly horrible things about you, so you better be sure you want to do this. It is one thing to be dissed by the world around you; it is something else again to be demeaned by your own church family while you are pouring your heart out for them.Personal Attacks

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